Whenever we feel like we are into ‘not so good’ vibes and everything we do is getting deteriorated due to all those people who do not think positive about us, it’s time to take a call for yourself. No matter how much you try, you cannot change some people and the perception they have for you. So, it’s kind of better to stay away from them. Here are some tips that will help you stay away from the negativity around.
Take stand for yourself
Start taking stand for your decisions. This will give them a message, straight forward that nothing’s gonna distract you. This is going to work in your favor, for sure.
Ignorance irritates them to the core
Nothing works more than your ignorance towards them would. They could still tackle your words but can’t do much with your ignorant attitude. This will help in lowering down their vocals and stop spreading their negativity in you and your surroundings.
Befriends with positive souls only
Another way of staying away from negative people is to surround yourself with people emitting positive vibes around you because darkness can only be shut down by the light and there’s no other way.
Stop trying to prove point
Don’t try to prove yourself to such irritating creatures. If they are rigid and aren’t ready to listen, just give up on them. Trying hard to prove a point to them will leave you with a tons of annoyance.
Always keep an optimistic approach over everything you do and stick to it. Anyone can be optimistic. You simply have to tune mind and fill it with positivity only.
Self analysis is highly recommended
It’s not necessary that others only are wrong. In some cases, even you can be. Go through a self analysis mode to analyse yourself on every angle. See where you are wrong and put in efforts to rectify your own mistakes.
Self contentment cuts negative vibes
Self contentment in yourself will automatically shovel out all the negative vibes emitted by negative people around. Happiness will follow your footsteps if you are content inside. Practice and then preach it to people.
Don’t let them guide you ever
Don’t let the person bothering you his/her negativity gain importance in your life and don’t involve them in your important decisions as well. Just in case you do that, they might distort your decisions and thoughts to practically nothing. Be aware!
Not having a dozen friends or family members is better than having a few who don’t mingle around with your aura. Stick to those who are happy with who you are and never try to change you.